A few weeks ago, my aussie and I were able to make it official. A date has been set and the countdown to our first meet-up has started.
As there is still a long way to go, I have been conscious that something could happen that could impact that date. But, as a number of people have talked to me about this pessimistic point of view from which I am trying to break away from it. In my previous post, I talked about in the stress resilience workshops I attended, they taught us that we should try to focus and live on the now rather than beat ourselves with concern and negative thoughts about the future. That is exactly what I am trying to do. That is what I can really do for my health and my relationship, hope for the best and embrace the present.
In spite of that, I am very excited and looking forward to finally having him with me, even if it’s for a few weeks. I continuously catch myself thinking about places and ideas that I can add to our bucket-list.
Truth is, I find this first meet-up as the beginning towards that awaited end goal that most, if not all, ldr couples think of: closing the distance. I know, I know, there is still a long away to go to this, but I am confident in us. I have faith on us and what we’ve built and have. As the countdown slowly continues, I am realizing that I’ll finally be able to be in the same space as him and that is something extremely amazing.
Are you or is someone you know in a long distance relationship? Have you met your significant other already? I’d like tor read what you have to say, make sure to share your thought in the comment section.